Dedicated to the memory of Big J

This site is a tribute to Big J, who was born in Nigeria on August 30, 1972. He is much loved and will always be remembered.

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Seyi you will always be in my heart cos you are caring friend with a large heart who always want to see people around you do well.
Iyabo yeye TC 4989
Keep resting in God's bosom my friend my brother, missing you is an understatement but I keep solace in the truth that you are in a better place and in peace, thank God for everything you stood for
Kunle Ogun
4th February 2025
My Beloved Seyi 😘 it’s been four years. Four years since you left this world, and yet, I still find it hard to believe. Time has moved, but my heart often feels suspended in that moment when everything changed. I don’t know how God has carried us through it all, but He has. Surviving without you has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever faced. But even in the darkest moments, God has been my hope, my comfort, and my peace. He’s surrounded us and the boys with people who have helped us navigate this journey, and only God is filling the space you left behind. Seyi, I miss you more than words can ever say. When you were here, I couldn’t imagine life without you. If anyone had told me I would have to walk this path without you, I would have said it was impossible. Every dream I had was wrapped around you. Every plan we made was together. My future was intertwined with yours in every way. And now, four years later, I still live in those dreams. I hold on to those dreams because they still feel like home. I know now, with a deeper understanding, where you are. I can picture you dancing with the angels, your spirit full of joy and peace. But that doesn’t stop the ache in my heart. I still long to hear your voice, feel your presence beside me. I carry your memory so deeply within me, I still feel your love—it surrounds me because you gave me so much of it. So much has happened in these four years. Life keeps moving, even when my heart feels like it’s standing still. I see how things are unfolding, and while I don’t always understand, I trust in God’s plan. I know His plans are good, filled with hope, and free of harm. I hold on to that promise, because I know it’s true. I’ve heard people say that time heals all wounds, but that’s a cliché I’ve learned isn’t true. It’s been four years, and the pain is still raw, the love still fresh. The day I got the news feels like yesterday. But in that pain, I hold your memory close, protect it fiercely, and carry it with me in everything I do. The boys and I live each day with you in our hearts. Continue to rest, my love, in the arms of your Maker. Dance with the angels, sing with the saints, and praise God in purity and joy. While you are in heaven, Seyi, the boys and I have given ourselves fully to God here on earth. We continue to sing hallelujah, to join our voices with the saints. We know that you are watching over us. You are part of that heavenly host/saint, a guiding angel, and we feel your presence in our lives. We love you so much. Rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Until we meet again, in that place where there is no more sorrow, no more pain—just eternity. I love you 😘 - Seyi mi owon.
Toyin J.
3rd February 2025
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